Last week I told you about my big dream, which was to meet and hold at least a 20 minute conversation with 10 of the most influential people of our time by July 2009. The question you are probarbly pondering is how close am I towards reaching that goal? Well I am about 20% there, so I still have a long way to go. But I believe in miracles, divine intervention and appointment so my 20% can go to 100% percent in a nanosecond, well maybe not a nanosecond, but with a miracle it can happen pretty quickly.
I also requested your participation in an exercise given from one of the folks on my list and said that I will share my outcome. So here it is:
1) What are the opportunities worth pursuing? Surprisingly, there were plenty of opportunities that came up for my clients, none for me. These opportunities were clear as a bright summer morning and I recommended that my clients pursue them. I was surprised because I thought that the exercise was very personal, it was intended only for the participant and I was expecting something that will directly make it self available to me. However, showing others the opportunities that are in front of them were so much more rewarding.
2: What’s missing in this picture? What came up for me as the missing elements were tolerance and acceptance. I feel that there is a spirit of intolerance in the world and I think it is more pervasive than ever before. In my picture I saw people, including myself at times, being intolerant. Interestingly enough during the week of the exercise my patience was tested in multiple ways; one being a gas station attendant who refused to provide her duty of service with a pleasing and helpful attidtude.
Another event occured which also showed me my intolerance was when I escaped a near head on collision because the other driver was going the wrong way. At that moment, I was so angry and all I thought about was my own safety and the other driver’s incompetence in navigating the road improperbly. It never occured to me when I was infruriated that perhaps the driver was new to the area and was desparately lost, or something even worst. When the police (who was in the right lane across from me) pulled him over immediately I felt a sense of satisfaction.
We aren’t very tolerant of others who are different, not very tolerant of people making mistakes, people cutting us off when we are driving or waiting in line. We aren’t tolerant of other people’s prespectives, some of us will vehemently defend our political, religious or scientific views. We will even go as far as imposing them on others. So what does this mean? Should you and I tolerate bad behavior, crime, poor legislations, road rage and the like? Well, no. No one should tolerate bad behavior, crime or anything else for that matter that take away something of value from us.
What it means is that we suspend judgment until we get the facts. As people we often judge others by the way they look, act, talk, walk, work and so on. We almost never suspend our judgments until we get to know the person. Most of our judgments come from our own limited understanding and the lenses we see the world in. We instantly size others up and get to an opinion even before they get to hello. Now there is credit to be given to our gut feelings about a person. But intuition doesn’t come from a place of judgment, it comes from Spirit, and Spirit doesn’t judge, it gives us wisdom so we can act accordingly.
Since we are all guilty of judging others here’s something you and I can do this week. When we are introduced to someone new before we formulate our first thought about the person, what if we suspend that thought and operate on the principles of acceptance and understanding. What if we begin the introdutions by asking a question that will provide us with a little more information about the individual? And how about we apply those principles from here on out?
One of my biggest dream is to meet and have a 20 minutes conversation with 10 of the most influential and inspirational people of our time by July of 2009. Hopefully, I don’t die any time soon as it requires much planning and plenty of time to make this happen. I want to ask them the one question that I ask successful people (I’m sure you want to know what the question is, but I’m not telling, at least not yet, not untill I meet them all). I believe in learning from the best and even the worst so you know what to do and what not to do. The people on my list are mostly authors and business gurus, people that have added value to the world.
On July 2nd I participated in a teleseminar with Michael Gerber, renowned author, The E-Myth. This teleseminar was very powerful in that he described how we as individuals limit ourselves by our own beliefs about what we can accomplish in our lives. He said that many of us don’t want to go outside of our comfort zones. How true. I usually think of myself as a person who takes risks, makes bold moves and challenges conventional wisdom, but after hearing Michael’s views about limiting beliefs, I have much streching to do with my vision for my business. So I’m going to implement a very basic exercise he suggested. He said that this exercise will awaken the level of consciousness that is needed to birth new products, services, etc. but is lock. Beginning this week I will look for opportunities worth pursuing and make observations in terms of what is missing in the picture. He suggested to do this for 7 consecutive days. So please join me in doing this exercise. In your journal this week write 1: Opportunities worth pursuing and 2: What’s missing in this picture.
I would like to hear what you’ve came up with, so please post your results and I will do the same. Want to know whose on my list and want to work with me to help make my dream come true? Contact me at info@indigocoachingsystems.com.
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“We make ourselves rich by making our wants few” – Henry David Thoreau, American writer
Most of us consume much more than what we need, whether it may be food, clothes, shelter, etc. We buy more house than we use, eat more food than our bodies can handle, resulting in obesity and other types of diseases, and we generate so much waste which produce tons of trash that are overflowing our landfills.
If you are a “consumptionist” ( a term I like to use) the one thing you can do now is simplify your life. To do this, you must achieve a clear understanding of your needs, not your wants. Understanding your needs will help you choose things that are important for your survival and happiness, not for your ego or for the status quo. Get started on living a simpler life by eliminating 2 or 3 things from your life that you don’t need. This could be clothes that you haven’t worn in years, monthly pedicures, 2 cups of coffee that you drink to keep you awake, or what about that 5 bedroom house you purchased for your wife and one child? Eliminating the extras will also help you to reduce your expenses, a benefit in today’s recessive economy.
Living simpler changes your life. You will not only know what’s really meaningful and important to you, but it frees you from society’s definition of what’s important in life. When you choose to live a simpler life, the Universe will always send you exactly what you need and when you need it. But what you must realize is that what you need may not always be what you thought you wanted. Don’t reject what the Universe sends you, thinking that something better is supposed to be on the way. Live everyday with a sense of gratitude for your blessings, and yes, even what you think are curses.
We all have said a negative thing or two about ourselves. But do we believe it?
Think about how you talk to yourself. Do you say things like I’m so stupid, I can’t do this, I’m not good at anything, I’m too fat, too tall, or too short, I’m not very attractive; or what about I will never amount to anything? These words are negative self-scripts that someone once said to you. You have now held these self-deprecating remarks to be true about yourself.
Repeating these and other types of negative scripts reinforce negative behavior and only deminish your self-worth and self-confidence.
To overcome this mindset, try replacing the negative self-talk with some positive self-talk. Identify all of your accomplishments, no matter how great or small you may think they are and celebrate them. Replace the negative self-scripts with positive words such as: I have everything I need, I can do this, I feel energetic and excited about my life and I welcome new possibilities, I am an attractive, intelligent person with unique gifts and talents.
Don’t be surprised if these words feel awkward at first. They might feel completely foreign to you. You might feel like you are just making these things up, they aren’t really true, but what you are doing is reprogramming your mind to counter everything you have come to believe to be true about you.
The more you practice your positive self-talk, the more you’ll connect with your Higher Self and reveal your true authentic self. It’s this connection that will ultimately silence your negative self-talk for good.
Do you often envision your life some thing different from what it is now? You may envision a healthier or a slimmer you with more disposable income; a successful career, a happier marriage, trustworthy and driven children.
If you had a magical tool that can make all of your desires come true, how would you feel? I bet you would feel wonderful, fantastic, like you’re living your best life ever! Now let’s use that magical tool and fast forward one year into the future. Are you happier? Do you feel that life can’t get any better, but it does?
Well you do have that magical tool and it’s called WORK. What I mean by work is putting forth your best effort, time, resources, skills, knowledge, techniques, life experiences, and everything else in between to get you living your best life ever!
Most people want the world but do not want to work for it. They want the quick-fix solutions to their problems. They want to lose the extra 20 lbs, but instead of applying disciple by eating the right foods and regular exercise, they opt for liposuction to get rid of the weight.
The truth is you and only you are responsible for your life (of course they are always exception to the rule). That means, you are to do whatever (within society’s moral and ethical code of conduct) it takes to create your best life. If you are mentally and physically able, then you have what it takes to do the necessary work that will position you to live the life you want.
WORK means making sacrifices, applying discipline, initiating will power, possessing determination, and most of all investing time into working on your dreams. If you’re serious about living your best life, then you must certainly do the WORK.
Based on the results my clients have received, it showed that if you do the work, you will get the “World”.
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